Monday, September 30, 2013

The 2013 Fall Bucket List


I'm all about "making memories". Forget the material stuff, I love the things you can never take away - experiences with family & friends. But every year, time slips past us. Not this year!! I've made a Fall Bucket List for us.

Can I guarantee we do it all? Of course not. But my kids are now 18, 16, and 13, which means time is ticking away. Some of these they won't do with us. The oldest is at school, the middle one is busy 24/7, and the youngest isn't interested in much more than his X-box.

And just in case the graphic isn't showing, here's our list:

Picnic at Vineyard
Plant mums
Attend the high school Homecoming Game (which we did, and my beloved Spotswood Blazers won 35-0!)
Watch "Hocus Pocus"
Sip apple cider
Go apple picking and make homemade pies
Attend Oktoberfest
Take a drive on the Blue Ridge Parkway as the leaves are peaking
Make crafts for the church Bazaar
Create shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child
Start on handmade Christmas gifts
Winterize the yard and plant bulbs for next year
Go pumpkin picking
Homemade chili & cornbread
Visit Fear Forest
Shop the craft vendors at Fall Festivals
Sit around a bonfire & make s'mores
Decorate the house for fall (check!)
Host a Halloween Party (may not happen this year due to the football schedule we have)
Play flag football
Attend a JMU football game & tailgate before with friends
Crochet a blanket
Have an "unplugged" day - no phones, TV, or computers.

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I compiled these from things I want to do, as well as ideas I saw on Pinterest.  Please share your additions in the comments section.

<3 C

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Quality Time?



The oldest called and wants to come home for the weekend. Actually, she wanted to come home last weekend, but we were so overbooked there was just no way to pull it off. So on Thursday I'll be driving over to Norfolk, 3.5 hours away, and picking her up so we can get back home again in time for little brother's football game and little sister's volleyball game.

So that brings me to Quality Time... yes, she's homesick, but I wonder if it's homesick for us or for her friends and her car? She's an introvert and usually when she's home, hides in her bedroom with her laptop in her pajamas. I know we'll be in the car together on the way back, but beyond that, how much of the three days she's with me will I get to see her?

I wonder how divorced parents do this. Seeing their children on specified weekends. I've watched some of the kids' friends who couldn't do a sleepover because it was a certain parent's weekend, and I don't want to be that mom. But if I'm the one going to get her because she's homesick, I feel I should get priority "visitation" over her friends.

We'll see how this all works out this weekend. Due to the distance, I won't be going back to get her until Thanksgiving. I'd hoped she would hang in there longer before coming home, it's been just shy of a month since we took her to school, but I don't want her throwing in the towel, either. Something tells me she might just transfer to a school a little closer to home next year, but time will tell.

~C


Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Happy Fall Y'all!


Nothing excites me more than decorating. It's an addiction. I've painted the house in neutrals because I'm so fickle and change the accessories so often.

So now that it's almost technically Autumn, I've been working on putting out the festive decorations that will take us through Thanksgiving. And I love to share, so here's a tour of what I've done so far. Keep in mind, it's always a work in progress. I'll find things throughout the season and incorporate them. Things get moved to new spots when I find something better.

The front porch:

I definitely need more leaf garlands. I like to swag them or wrap them around the top of the rail, but seem to have a shortage. Unless there is a box hidden in the attic that I missed, I used to have enough, but they do take some wear & tear being outdoors for three months of the year. I usually find them at Michael's. On the porch lights, I use yarn to tie leaf swags. It's easy to tie, blends, and is even easier to remove.

This adorable wheelbarrow was something my Momma found at the Church Bazaar last year. Filled with hay at the bottom and lots of pumpkins and some random leaves and flowers. I'm really thinking a big pot of mums need to go in here... I keep it out year-round and change what it's filled with.

The Living Room:

We don't have an actual foyer, but I use furniture placement to divide the very large living room. The Blanket Chest is from Charles Neil and the wall art came from Southern Living at Home. I've put a simple centerpiece that was found last year at Big Lots. While I love Southern Living, Pottery Barn, Pier 1, etc., I'm always on the hunt and will not leave a decoration behind just because it came from Big Lots, Family Dollar, or even the Goodwill store. I score well at Cracker Barrel, too.


Love these apothecary jars! Picked them up for about $10 each at TJ Maxx. The large one is full of fall pumpkins and leaves from Big Lots, the tall one has some candy, and the short one is full of candy corn I got in the bulk section at Martin's Grocery store.


My mantel is my pride & joy in this room, mostly because that wall needed a fireplace and the house wasn't built with one. So I found one on Craigslist for $100, built a "hearth" out of 2x4s and plywood, and covered the hearth and inside the mantel with peel & stick tiles. The candelabra came from Southern Living at Home and the fireplace screen was something I'd traded a friend hubby's unused weight bench for.  I used Command strips to hang the garland (aren't those AWESOME???). Across the mantel is a candy dish with a candle ring inside, a set of 3 iron pillar candleholders I bought years ago at Walmart (candles came from Big Lots), a family photo, a praying angel (SLAH), a trifle dish full of different color beans (SLAH), and a wire pumpkin candleholder (sorry, can't remember where it was bought, but I've had it several years). The red dishes are also SL@H. The glittery pumpkins and the metal pumpkin that are on the hearth were all found at Family Dollar.

The Dining Room:

I try not to overdo it on the table, as we eat there on any evening we are actually home for dinner. Just a simple table runner (Big Lots) with a centerpiece that can easily be moved (SLAH).



The piesafe in the corner offers a great place for another vignette. Most of these accessories are Southern Living at Home, but I found the pumpkin baskets for 75 cents each at Goodwill, a vase of fall flowers behind the picture to add more color, and let it be. Most of these are on my mantel during the "off" season.


I've had this hutch for 20 years and when we bought our current home 8 years ago, my Momma repainted it for me in this beautiful olivey-sage green.  Again, the accessories are a mix of Southern Living, Big Lots, Family Dollar, and I even had a scarf that I wasn't so fond of wearing but looked great pooled around the little lamp.

The Kitchen:


The breakfast area of our kitchen is decorated, although the placemats, plates on the wall, and red accessories are there almost year-round. Plates on wall & placemats were bought at Pier 1 earlier this year, the dishes & plate rack are Southern Living at Home. The doughbox is from Charles Neil. And a close-up of the shelf:


They all thought I was crazy when I hauled this shelf home from Goodwill for $2.95.  After painting it white, I screwed it directly into the studs. Command hooks hold the garland under the top shelf.  It's decorated with many pieces I've had for years, but a few newbies have been found at Rite Aid, Family Dollar and Big Lots.

No, I don't think I'm done decorating for fall yet, but with some Scentsy (my baby sis is a consultant, gotta give her a link here!) in the warmers and a chill in the air, I'm ready for Fall, y'all! This part has been easy, it takes me weeks to finish putting out the Christmas stuff.

Love,
C